The Three Pillars and Transitional Emotional States
The Three Pillars and Transitional Emotional States in Integral Eye Movement Technique (IEMT)
Abstract. The Three Pillars model in Integral Eye Movement Technique (IEMT) provides a structured way of understanding how specific emotional states cluster and transition over time. This article clarifies the rationale behind the organisation of the Three Pillars, guilt-based states, anxiety-based states, and anger-based states, and addresses common practitioner questions regarding their temporal sequencing. Rather than a linear past–present–future model, the Three Pillars are presented as a transitional emotional system that emerges under conditions of inconsistent rule structures, particularly in chronic stress and depressive contexts.
The Three Pillars Model: An Overview
The Three Pillars model is a core organising framework within IEMT practitioner training. It groups commonly encountered emotional states into three functional clusters:
- Pillar One: Guilt, shame, regret, and remorse
- Pillar Two: Anxiety, panic, and worry
- Pillar Three: Anger and temper
This model is intended for practitioners already familiar with IEMT training concepts and should not be understood as a universal or exhaustive taxonomy of emotional experience. Instead, it represents a recurring pattern observed in particular psychological and environmental conditions.

Why the Pillars Are Not Ordered Past–Present–Future
A common question concerns why the Three Pillars are not arranged in a conventional temporal sequence of past, present, and future. From a narrative and cognitive perspective, such a linear organisation would appear intuitive, reflecting how individuals often conceptualise time on an internal timeline.
However, the ordering of the Three Pillars does not reflect a narrative preference; it reflects observed emotional flow. The model captures how emotional states tend to transition in lived experience under specific conditions, rather than how they are conceptually categorised in abstract time.
In practice, guilt- and shame-based states frequently precede anxiety-based states, which in turn may precede anger-based states. This sequencing reflects a common emotional progression rather than a fixed or inevitable pathway.
The Three Pillars as a Transitional Model
It is essential to emphasise that the Three Pillars model is transitional rather than deterministic. The connections illustrated within the model describe how emotions can flow, not how they must flow. It's an important distinction often missed by practitioners with insufficient understanding of the model.
Guilt does not inevitably lead to anxiety, and anxiety does not inevitably lead to anger. Numerous counterexamples exist in everyday experience. The model applies most clearly in individuals experiencing chronic stress, depression, or human environments characterised by inconsistent or emotionally driven rule structures.
In such contexts, emotional states function less as isolated experiences and more as transitional mechanisms that move the individual from one state to another without providing a stable resolution or exit.
Inconsistent Rule Structures and Emotional Cycling
The Three Pillars pattern is most reliably observed in environments where rule structures are inconsistent, unpredictable, or emotionally enforced. A commonly cited example is the workplace managed by mood, favour, or arbitrary standards rather than by clear, stable rules.
Under such conditions, individuals may experience:
- Shame or guilt for behaviour that was previously rewarded
- Anxiety about future interactions or consequences
- Delayed emergence of anger as reflection and appraisal occur
The apparent temporal misalignment (past-related emotions preceding future-oriented emotions before present-focused anger) reflects how individuals psychologically process threat, uncertainty, and boundary violation over time.
Practitioner Self-Observation and Emotional Timing
Practitioners are encouraged to apply the Three Pillars model reflexively by observing their own emotional transitions. This involves taking a meta-position to one’s experience and actively tracking:
- How long a particular emotional state persists
- Which emotional state follows next
- What behaviours or interactions facilitate emotional transition
Many emotional states function as bridges rather than destinations. Venting, externalising, or seeking validation may be necessary transitional processes before a more stable emotional state is reached.
Transitional Versus Stable Emotional States
A key distinction within IEMT is between transitional emotions and more stable emotional states. Transitional emotions facilitate movement within the emotional system, while stable states represent relative equilibrium (good, bad or otherwise).
The Three Pillars model captures a system in which individuals repeatedly cycle through transitional states without access to an exit. Therapeutic intervention focuses on addressing the structural conditions (internal and external) that maintain this closed loop.
Integration Within the IEMT Model
The Three Pillars should not be viewed as a standalone construct. Like other elements of IEMT, it represents a different exploration of the same underlying processes governing identity, emotion, and memory.
IEMT is not a collection of unrelated techniques. Its models are interlinked and mutually informative, providing multiple access points into the same systemic patterns. Understanding these interconnections allows practitioners to move beyond the application of techniques toward coherent clinical formulation.
The Three Pillars model offers a practical framework for understanding emotional transitions under conditions of chronic stress and inconsistent structure. Its non-linear organisation reflects lived psychological reality rather than narrative convention.
By recognising emotions as transitional processes rather than fixed states, practitioners can more accurately identify where clients become trapped: and where meaningful therapeutic intervention can restore movement and resolution.






